Let’s Talk About Cyberbullying

A heartfelt message from someone who’s had enough of it.
By Dr. Hinduja

We built Giant Maine Coons out of love—for our animals, for the families we connect them with, and for the joy these gentle giants bring into people’s lives. But as our cattery has grown, so has something else: the online cruelty from strangers who don’t know us, haven’t even applied to adopt, yet feel entitled to attack us publicly.

So here’s what we need to say—plain and honest.

1. We Don’t Owe Anyone Instant Replies—or a Kitten

This isn’t Amazon. We’re not running a storefront; we’re raising living beings.

We do things slowly and intentionally. That means:

• We’re not glued to our inbox.

• We don’t rush to respond just because someone demands it.

• And we definitely don’t place our kittens with people who skip the application and come in swinging with entitlement or aggression.

If we don’t reply, or if we kindly pass on someone, that’s us doing our job—protecting our babies. It’s not personal, it’s about safety and alignment. If that upsets you, this may not be the right fit.

2. Attacking Strangers Online Says More About You Than Us

Let’s be real. When someone starts throwing hate at people they’ve never met online, it’s usually not about the people they’re attacking. It’s a projection.

So if you’re feeling the urge to send a nasty message or post something slanderous, ask yourself:

• What are you actually feeling?

• Are you frustrated about something else in your life?

• Did you really want a kitten and now feel rejected or overlooked?

• Is this about needing control or validation?

We're human too. And behind this cattery is a real family. Kindness matters. If you're hurting, we get it—but please don’t take it out on us.

3. The “Scam” Accusation—Let’s Use Logic for a Second

If we were trying to scam you, don’t you think we’d at least try to make you happy first? Or, I don’t know… ask for your money?

We don’t do that.
We don’t take deposits from strangers.
We don’t sell to the general public.
We offer FaceTime calls before any agreements are made.
We even invite people to come meet our cats in person.

We’ve got tons of reviews, happy families, and proof of everything we say. So if you’re ready to drag our name through the mud without doing the bare minimum of research, maybe pause for a second. Google us. Watch our videos. Read the testimonials. We're not hiding.

4. One Mean Comment Can Ruin Someone’s Whole Day

Sometimes people forget there’s a human on the other side of the screen. One cruel message can spiral a person’s mood, energy, and entire day. And maybe that person was already struggling—already dealing with real-life stress, family issues, grief, or exhaustion.

You don’t know. You can’t know.

But that little ripple of negativity you sent out? It doesn’t stop there. That person may carry it into their interactions with others. Their partner. Their kids. Their clients. Their animals. That’s the butterfly effect. The chain reaction of energy we’re all responsible for.

So ask yourself:
Don’t you want this world to be a more beautiful place?
Because it starts with you.
It starts inside.

Choose softness. Choose grace. Choose the words you’ll be proud of tomorrow. That’s the kind of energy that heals the world—not just for others, but for you too.

✋ Before You Type Something Harmful—Take a Beat

Words have consequences. When you accuse, harass, or slander someone online, it can ripple out in ways you don’t see. It can hurt real people, real animals, and real families.

So before you hit post:

• Ask yourself if you have the full story.

• Check your tone.

• Ask if your reaction is really coming from truth—or just emotion.

If you have a genuine concern, we’re open to respectful dialogue. But bullying? Defamation? Threats? That’s where we draw the line. And yes, we will take legal steps if needed.

With care, clarity, and boundaries,
The Giant Maine Coons Family
🐾 Protecting our cats. Protecting our peace.